--- topic: [[Doing]] people: #people/trump created: 2023-01-21 --- *[[De]] comes from the right combination of presence, flow, expertise, and genuine caring and connection to create a positive social presence.* This reminds me how one of the benefits of [[Flow]] is that it causes us to loose our sense of self-awareness. It's kind of like the tradeoffs between being in a moment of lost self and in moments of self-awareness. This is a statement about the [[social benefits]] of flow. This leads credence to my goal of getting people moving together, focusing on moving and creating together with the goal of getting people to team. This matters because since [[emotional contagion]]s cause emotions to spread, and [[Emotions live between people rather than within]] when we can get people into effortless action, we can get people to join with those around them and be open to experience. ##### What would the opposite argument be? Hard but not impossible, see sociopaths like Trump, George Santos, and Sam Bankman-Fried. We can fall victim to frauds, especially when they believe fully in the why. What's the lesson here? [[competence and confidence are not linked]], people with extreme levels of confidence projected are unrelated to their likelihood of competence. %% tags: #note/statement | #on/community | #on/action | #on/flow %% ##### Sources: [[🐓 Idea Farm/Deadfall/For myself only/Readwise/Books/Trying Not to Try]]