*A way of looking at the world that is helpful for seeking to understand.* This reminds me of [[first seek to understand]], allow understanding to be the guiding principle It's kind of like [[Listening to Understand]], and the key idea in habit 5 of [[🐓 Idea Farm/🪾Deadfall/For myself only/Readwise/Books/The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People]]. It is an effortful approach to look for what the drivers are, and the goal would be learning and also [[Peak performance]] because you would always be finding a positive relationship. This matters because [[Thymos]] and the needs for people to be respected, if you can look for what's different and instead of looking for what's wrong you can hopefully help to understand people better :) ### What would the opposite argument be? people are wrong from a point of view ## Sources: